Tom, You will Be Missed

I attended the memorial service that was held for Thomas Rouleau a few weeks ago. It is hard for me to express just how moved I was by everything that was said by both Tom’s friends and family; and also how in awe I was of his brilliant and creative artwork that was displayed throughout the forum. Sure tears were rolling down the faces of many throughout the memorial but smiles and laughs were also seen and heard.

Though lots of of us are still dealing with the sudden loss of Tom I was reassured that particular Sunday night that he would want us to continue to stick together during this difficult time and remember it is okay to laugh again. We lost not just a McDaniel Student, but a best friend, a boyfriend, a brother, a son, and the list could continue for lines and lines.

But I learned so many valuable lessons at that memorial service that will stick with me forever. One very important thing that Tom’s mother, Mary, pointed out to all of us is that we must live our lives the best way we know how and not waste time doing things we do not enjoy. That is the way Tom lived his life and we must emulate his attitude. We must continue to laugh often and spend time with the people we love most. Nothing in life is certain and we must live, as Tom did, to the fullest every day. We must remain optimistic. Remain spontaneous. Remain hopeful. Remain caring and loving towards others.

As I strive to keep a smile on my face every day and even laugh too hard at a bad joke that’s not even funny I will think of you Tom. I know your spirit will reside in me forever. Rest in Peace.

kate delenick
Co Editor-in-Chief